That Very First Step Towards the Wrong Direction

Life is often measured by its milestones—the grand achievements and the final destinations. However, the real direction of life is rarely decided at the finish line. Instead, it is decided at the beginning. As we go through our personal, professional, and spiritual journeys, we must come to terms with the fact that the most critical moment of any journey is the very first step.

While we celebrate the first steps of a child with joy and cameras, there is another kind of first step that requires our somber attention—the first step in the wrong direction.

The Mirage of “Smart” Sin

We often tell ourselves that we can avoid the results of our actions. We look at the story of Jacob and see a man who thought he was being “smart” by tricking his blind father. Today, this is like changing a financial report, making a sneaky move at work, or taking a shortcut to get something we think is taking too long.

We call it “strategy,” but the soul knows it as “cunning.” The reflection here is simple yet powerful. If we use evil means to achieve a perceived “good” end, we have already lost. Jacob eventually received the blessing, but he also ran away from home and endured deep pain in a broken family. When we choose to be “smart” instead of “faithful,” we trade our peace for a mirage.

The Quiet Danger of Complacency

Not every wrong turn starts with a grand plan to do evil. Often, it begins with the simple act of not being where we are supposed to be. King David’s downfall with Bathsheba didn’t begin on a rooftop; it began on the battlefield—or rather, his absence from it.

Complacency is the silent engine of the “downhill path.” When we stop being watchful, stop showing up for our responsibilities, or allow our spiritual lives to become dry, we create a vacuum. That vacuum is inevitably filled by temptation. Reflection requires us to ask: Where am I supposed to be right now? Am I at my post, or am I loitering in a place of spiritual danger?

The Lie of the Happy Ending

Perhaps the most dangerous deception of the wrong path is the promise of a “happy ending.” Judas Iscariot likely didn’t intend to destroy the Savior; he likely intended to “nudge” the Master into a display of power while pocketing a little silver on the side. He had a plan, supporters, and a vision of how it would all work out.

We often start the wrong path with a plan to “get away with it” or to “fix it later.” But sin is a circle, not a straight line. It traps us in a cycle of covering up, where one lie necessitates a second, and one compromise leads to a murder of the conscience.

The Courage to Stop

The most hopeful part of reflecting on our “first steps” is the realization that the downhill slide can be interrupted. However, it cannot be interrupted gradually. You cannot “phase out” of a wrong direction; you must stop.

Stopping requires a brutal, radical honesty. It means blocking the number you shouldn’t be texting, revising the document with the truth, or admitting the mistake before it becomes a character trait. As the Psalmist prayed, we must invite the Divine to “Search me… and see if there is any wicked way in me.”

Everything is decided at the first step. If you find yourself a few miles down the wrong road today, do not look for a “smart” way to finish the journey. Stop and turn around. Integrity isn’t the absence of temptation; it is the courage to be mindful of that very first step.

𝘈𝘥𝘢𝘱𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘗𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳 𝘞𝘢𝘵𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘍𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘪𝘴, 𝘋.𝘔𝘪𝘯., 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘑𝘢𝘯. 15, 2026, 𝘥𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 the fifth 𝘥𝘢𝘺 of the 𝘌𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘊𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘭 𝘗𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘜𝘯𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘞𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳.

Lyn Lucero ⎸ ECPUC Communication